Boundaries Are Doors, Not Walls

What's up, wonderful, amazing, sweet, and lovely people! Welcome back to Maryam's Joyful Life.

Today I want to talk about something I've been intentionally working on: boundaries.

Recently, I had an interaction with someone who had crossed my boundaries in the past. This time, something was different. I had already made up my mind that I would stay focused, keep the conversation respectful and short, and not allow myself to be pulled into anything beyond the purpose of the conversation.

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And you know what? I did it!

I helped when help was needed, communicated what I needed to communicate, and when the conversation was finished, I simply said goodbye and ended the call. I didn't stay around waiting for something else to happen. I didn't over-explain myself. I didn't allow old dynamics to pull me back into being the person I used to be.

That really opened my eyes.

Sometimes people remember the younger version of you and continue treating you like that child. But you're not that child anymore. You've grown. You've learned. You've built a life. You have responsibilities, dreams, businesses, families, and goals.

You are allowed to change how people access you.

I've learned that boundaries aren't walls that completely shut everyone out. Boundaries are doors. You decide when the door opens and when it closes.

If someone respects you, loves you, and treats you well, you can open the door. If someone continually disrespects you or makes you feel small, you have every right to close it.

Protecting your peace isn't being mean. Respecting yourself isn't selfish.

Today, I want to remind you: you are worthy, you are valuable, and nobody has the right to steal your joy.

Draw your line. Respect yourself. And don't be afraid to close the door when necessary.

Your joy matters. ❤️