Change Is Linguistic: Speak the Language of Where You’re Going

 What’s up, wonderful, amazing, sweet, and lovely people?

How are you all doing today? I truly hope you’re having an amazing day and not allowing anyone—or anything—to steal your joy. Welcome to I’m Joy for Life. It’s a beautiful day, and I’m so grateful to share this moment with you.

Today, I want to talk about something that has been deeply resonating with me lately: what’s in your language.

One of my coaches often reminds me that change is linguistic. In other words, the words we speak matter more than we realize. When we change how we speak, we change what we attract into our lives—and I believe that with my whole heart.

Recently, I took time to honestly evaluate the words I’ve been using to talk about my goals, my life, and myself. What I discovered surprised me. I realized I hadn’t been as positive as I thought I was. Instead of speaking from vision, I had been speaking from circumstance. I was allowing current results—and sometimes past disappointments—to determine my language.

But here’s the truth: if we want to change our lives, we have to use our higher faculties. We must use our perception, our reason, and our intuition. We must begin to think, see, and speak as the person we desire to become—not as the person defined by present conditions.

When we constantly evaluate ourselves based on our current situation, we recreate the same results over and over again. But when we shift our language, we shift our reality.

I realized that no matter what is happening on the outside, I have the power to change the inside. And the inside always comes first. I can refuse to let external circumstances control my attitude, my expectations, or my words. Instead, I can choose to speak the language of where I’m going—as if I’m already there.

Every word we speak carries a vibration. Every sentence we form is creating something. If we’re always talking about what’s not working, thinking about what’s missing, and repeating old stories, that’s exactly what we continue to experience. Not because we’re bad or broken—but because language is creative.

So I’m choosing differently.

I’m choosing to speak from the goal, not the gap.

I’m choosing to see myself where I’m going, not where I’ve been.

I’m choosing to speak as the version of me who has already achieved what she desires.

And I want to encourage you to do the same.

Stop allowing past results and current circumstances to dictate what you speak and what you expect. If you’ve been in the habit of saying, “I can’t,” I want you to know this: you can. You can, you can, you can.

Your spirit is beautiful.

Your spiritual DNA is powerful and perfect.

There is no limit to where you can take yourself.

My coach often says, “There is no end to where you can take yourself,” and today, I choose to accept that idea fully. I choose to believe that I can create what I want. I refuse to allow past or present results to control my attitude, my language, or my future.

From this moment forward, I choose to speak positivity.

I choose to believe.

I choose to think and speak like I’ve already achieved my goals.

I am going higher.

Better things than I’ve ever imagined are coming my way.

I am successful.

I am abundant.

I am worthy.

Success is my birthright.

I refuse to allow the past to control my future.

From this present moment, I choose to create a future I’m proud of—a future filled with joy, excitement, fulfillment, and freedom. A future created on my terms, not dictated by past failures, other people’s expectations, or old limitations.

So today, I invite you to stand strong with me. Decide what you want. Speak the language of where you’re going. Act as though it’s already done—because you are capable.

Remember this: you are the prize.

The goal isn’t more important than you.

You are powerful because you have the ability to create what you desire.

And it all starts with how you think, how you feel, and—most importantly—how you speak.

Let’s get excited. Let’s be grateful that we have the power to change our lives starting today. And let’s refuse to allow situations, people, or the past to steal our joy.

Thank you so much for being here and reading this today. I appreciate you more than you know.

And if you’re looking for a coach who will walk with you as you create the life you truly want, I’m here for you.

👉 Visit www.maryamsjoyfullife.com and sign up today.

Just Do It Now: How Taking Action Breaks Procrastination and Restores Your Joy

 

What’s up, wonderful, amazing, sweet, and lovely people? 💕

How are you all doing today? Thank you so much for stopping by Myriam’s Joyful Life. It’s truly a privilege to be here and to share another life insight with you. My hope is that this message encourages you, uplifts you, and helps you move forward on your journey.

Today, I want to talk about something we all face at some point: procrastination—and the freedom that comes when we finally take action.

Knowing What Needs to Be Done… But Still Delaying

Recently, there was something I knew I needed to do. I knew it was important. I knew it required my attention, focus, and preparation. And I also knew it was connected to something I really wanted for my life.

Yet, for some reason, I felt heavy.

My body didn’t want to move.

My mind kept saying, “I can wait. I’ll do it later.”

Have you ever experienced that feeling—when you know exactly what needs to be done, but everything in you resists starting?

Stuck on the Hamster Wheel of Indecision

I realized I was stuck in a cycle of indecision. I wasn’t moving forward, but I wasn’t letting it go either. I kept postponing the task, hoping the feeling would pass or that I’d feel more motivated later.

But instead of getting easier, the weight of the task grew heavier.

That’s the danger of procrastination—it convinces us that waiting will help, when in reality, waiting only adds pressure and stress.

Choosing Action Even When It Feels Hard

Eventually, I made a decision: I was going to do it anyway.

I started.

I stayed focused.

I completed the task.

And once it was done, everything changed.

I felt lighter.

I felt accomplished.

I felt excited.

And yes—I celebrated 🎉

That’s when I asked myself, “Why did I struggle with this in the first place?” Why did I allow fear, hesitation, or discomfort to keep me stuck, when taking action brought so much peace and joy?

Procrastination Steals Joy — Action Restores It

This experience reminded me how often we do this in life. We delay the very things that will move us forward. We allow laziness, fear, or discouragement to slow us down—even when there’s no real reason.

When we procrastinate:

The problem feels heavier

Our stress increases

Our joy decreases

But when we take action:

The burden lifts

Confidence grows

Life becomes more enjoyable

This is the power of delayed gratification—doing what needs to be done now so we can enjoy the results later.

Be a Person of Action

When we choose to act, even when it feels uncomfortable, we create momentum. While others may feel stuck or frustrated, decisive people experience peace and progress—because they handled the task at hand.

If something must be done, the best time to do it is now.

Do It Now — Your Future Self Will Thank You

Today, I want to encourage you:

Whatever you’ve been postponing, get up and do it.

Stop procrastinating. Procrastination steals your joy, your peace, and your forward movement. The faster you take action, the more enjoyment and freedom you’ll experience later.

And when you finish—celebrate. Celebrating reinforces positive habits, confidence, and the mindset of doing things right when they’re supposed to be done.

Final Encouragement

I feel so good after taking action, and that’s why I’m writing this—to encourage you to do the same.

Get to it.

Just do it.

Do it now.

And if you need a coach to guide you, encourage you, and walk alongside you on your personal growth journey, I’ve got you 💛

Visit my website and sign up today at:

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You are capable. You are strong. And you can do hard things. 🌱✨

Allow Yourself to Enjoy the Blessings You’ve Been Given

 

What’s up wonderful, amazing, sweet, and lovely people?

Thank you so much for checking out my blog today. It’s a beautiful day, and I’m super excited to be back with another post. Today, I want to talk about something that has been sitting deeply on my heart: allowing yourself to truly enjoy the blessings you’ve been given.

Recently, I had a conversation with my sweet man that really opened my eyes. I was sharing how, whenever he offers to take care of the baby and encourages me to just go do my thing—without worrying or struggling—it brings up a mix of emotions for me. On one hand, I feel excited and grateful. On the other hand, there’s this lingering thought of, “Wow… I actually have time.”

When Blessings Feel Unfamiliar

For so long, my life consisted of doing everything at once—being a mom, running a business, working under constant pressure, and trying to keep up with everything with barely enough time. Now, things have shifted. I have support. I have help. I have space.

And yet, I noticed something interesting about myself.

Even with help, my body still holds onto tightness. There’s this internal pressure—almost like I should still be rushing or struggling—despite the fact that there’s no longer a reason to. That pressure is familiar. It’s what I’ve known for years.

Learning to Accept Help Without Guilt

What I’m doing intentionally now is this:

I’m accepting the help that’s available to me and allowing it to actually help me.

I’m choosing to do things calmly, confidently, and intentionally—rather than from stress or survival mode. I’m reminding myself that I have enough time. I don’t need to rush. I don’t need to operate under pressure to prove anything.

And I’m sharing this because I know I’m not alone.

Breaking Free From Old Patterns of Pressure and Struggle

Sometimes, we become so used to pressure and struggle that when it’s no longer required, we subconsciously recreate it. Even when life has changed for the better, we keep operating from old programs, old behaviors, and old survival patterns that no longer serve us.

So today, I’m calling myself—and you—into something new.

Living in the Present, Not the Past

Let’s choose to live in the present.

Not in past pain.

Not in past struggle.

Not in outdated mindsets that no longer apply.

Could it be that some of us desire more abundance, yet struggle to enjoy what we already have because we’re so used to not having enough? Could it be that the abundance we prayed for is already here—but we haven’t fully allowed ourselves to receive it?

Gratitude, Breath, and Awareness

Today, I invite you to pause.

Take a deep breath.

Notice your life right now.

The life you’re living today may very well be the life you once prayed for—and it is good.

It is okay to accept help.

It is okay to rest.

It is okay to stop working under pressure and start working from inspiration, excitement, intuition, alignment, and power.

Choose Joy Intentionally

As you go about your day today, don’t steal your own joy.

Be intentional about what you’re intentional about.

Notice what you’re noticing.

Allow the help. Accept the change. Embrace the peace.

There is no power in pressure.

There is no joy in constant stress.

And there is so much beauty in allowing yourself to enjoy the blessings you’ve been given.

Don’t let anyone—and especially not yourself—steal your joy 💛

Stop Planning the Plan — Start Doing the Work

 

Good morning, wonderful, amazing, sweet, and lovely people. 🌞

It’s a beautiful day today, and I’m truly happy you’re here.

Today, I want to talk about something that recently came to my attention: doing the steps and following the instructions instead of constantly reviewing the instructions.

I noticed that I’ve gathered a lot of strategies around mindset training. Books, PDFs, notes, exercises, teachings — all meant to help me create a better mindset and a better life. On top of that, I have spiritual practices I love, like meditation and visualization exercises. All of it is good. All of it has value.

But here’s what I noticed…

When I started thinking too much about everything I needed to do — all the strategies, all the instructions, all the practices — I started to feel distracted, overwhelmed, and mentally cluttered. Instead of feeling more peaceful, I felt anxious. Instead of feeling freer, I felt weighed down.

And then a powerful realization hit me.

The reason I’m doing mindset work is to create peace, clarity, freedom, and joy — not more chaos, confusion, or pressure.

Could it be that what was meant to help me had slowly turned into information overload?

Could it be that mindset work had become another “to-do list” instead of a pathway to the life I actually want?

That’s when I asked myself one simple but life-changing question:

What is the ONE thing I need to do right now that will move me closer to my goal?

Not ten things.

Not everything at once.

Just one clear, aligned action.

And the answer was simple:

I need to focus on getting better at my craft. I need to practice. I need to show up. I need to do the work.

I realized that I was spending a lot of time priming myself — reading, planning, preparing, visualizing — but not enough time actually becoming the person who gets the result. You can’t just prepare forever. At some point, you have to practice. You have to implement. You have to take action.

You can read every instruction in the world, but if you never apply it, nothing changes.

That’s why I wanted to bring this message to you today.

Could it be that the reason you’re feeling frustrated, overwhelmed, or anxious is because you’re stuck planning instead of doing?

Could it be that you’re thinking about the steps, studying the steps, and talking about the steps — but not actually taking the steps?

Planning has its place. Learning has its place. Mindset work is powerful.

But implementation is what creates results.

So today, as you evaluate everything on your plate, ask yourself:

Am I practicing the skill I want to master?

Am I taking the actions that move me forward?

Am I reaching out, following up, applying, signing up, testing, showing up?

Read the books — yes.

Take the courses — yes.

Learn the knowledge — yes.

But then use it. Practice it.

Apply it.

Do the thing.

That’s what leads to freedom.

That’s what builds confidence.

That’s what changes your life.

So let’s stop planning the plan.

Let’s start taking action.

Let’s start making real progress toward the life we want.

And as always — don’t let anybody steal your joy. 💫

If you’re looking for a coach who can help guide you, keep you focused, and support you as you take action, I’m here for you.

Sign up for one of my coaching sessions today at www.maryamjoyfullife.com.

I can’t wait to work with you. 💛

A Joyful Island Getaway: Our Visit to Jekyll Island & Simons Island, Georgia

 

What’s up, everybody? Thank you so much for checking out my Maryam’s Joyful Life blog today. It’s a beautiful day, and I’m super excited to be back sharing another joyful experience with you.

Today, I want to take you along on our recent getaway to Jekyll Island, Georgia, as part of our Tours with Taylor segment. If you’ve been thinking about planning a peaceful island escape, this one might just be for you. And of course, if you’re ready to plan your own trip, you can always visit MaryamsJoyfulLifeLuxuryVacation.com, and we’ll be happy to help you create something amazing.

Our Stay at Jekyll Island Golf Club

We recently enjoyed an overnight stay at the Jekyll Island Golf Club, and let me tell you—it was beautiful, classic, and full of history. This place is truly something special. The architecture feels like a castle, and our room even had a fireplace, which made the whole experience feel cozy and luxurious at the same time.

What made it even more meaningful was learning about the history of the area. Jekyll Island is known for being the site where the foundation of the U.S. banking system was created by five major founding parties. Standing in a place with that much history really makes you pause and appreciate where you are. You can find even more details online when you research Jekyll Island, but seeing it in person was incredible.

Dinner at The Wharf

We arrived in the evening, so our first night was all about settling in and enjoying a good meal. We ate dinner at The Wharf, a restaurant just about two minutes from the hotel. The food was amazing. I had chicken, Leveon enjoyed shrimp, and Zoe went with grilled cheese and fries. Everything was fresh and delicious, and it was the perfect way to end our first night on the island.

Breakfast at the Resort & Exploring the Island

The next morning, we had breakfast at the resort’s restaurant, which offered a buffet-style experience. While it was a bit pricey for a family of five (around $140), the food was good and there were plenty of options. They had an omelet station with a chef taking orders, a wide variety of vegetables, vegan options, fresh-squeezed juices, fresh coffee, and all the classic breakfast favorites. Overall, it was a nice experience, and we enjoyed it.

After breakfast, we showered, packed up, and spent time exploring the island. Jekyll Island is rich with history. We toured several historical sites, including an old house built by one of the early French settlers, as well as a historic graveyard. Each stop added depth to the experience and made the island feel even more special.

Sunset Beach: Pure Tranquility

One of my favorite moments was visiting Sunset Beach. The beach was incredibly peaceful and beautiful—quiet, calming, and just what you imagine when you think of a relaxing island getaway. I’ve included photos from our trip so you can feel the vibe for yourself.

Watch the Vlog on YouTube

If you’d like to see more of our experience in video form, we vlogged our entire trip. Be sure to check out our YouTube channel at youtube.com/@MaryamsJoyfulLife. I’ll also be linking the videos directly in this blog so you can watch and enjoy every moment with us.

A Stop at Simons Island

After leaving Jekyll Island, we decided to stop by the neighboring Simons Island just to experience the difference. Compared to Jekyll Island, Simons Island has more of a city vibe. It feels more like the everyday world you leave behind when you’re heading to a calm, tranquil place like Jekyll. While it was nice to see, it didn’t have that same vacation energy that Jekyll Island offers.

Final Thoughts

Overall, our experience was amazing. The kids had fun, I had fun, and it was truly restful. The skies were blue, the air was warm, and it felt so refreshing. Coming back home to cloudy, wintery weather really made us realize how special that time was. It’s hard to believe these two completely different vibes exist in the same state—but they do.

Grilled cheese and fries 

Shrimps and fries Basket

Fried Chicken Sandwich 

Chicken and Fries

The Wharf Restaurant 

We’re already excited to go back to Jekyll Island and experience even more of what it has to offer.

If you’re looking to travel, need help planning a vacation, or want access to great travel deals, we’re here for you. Visit MaryamsJoyfulLifeLuxuryVacation.com or call 470-765-2745. Let us take care of you.

Thank you for checking out the blog today. Have a beautiful day—and don’t let anybody steal your joy 💛

When Disappointment Hits, Don’t Give Up—God Is Still Working

 

What’s up, wonderful, amazing, sweet, and lovely people? How are you all doing today? I truly hope you’re having an amazing day and not letting anybody steal your joy. Welcome to my Arms Joyful Life blog.

Today is a beautiful day, and I am super, super excited to be posting this blog today.

Let’s talk about something real.

What do you do when you have completely convinced yourself—100%—that something you wanted was going to work out? You believed in it. You hoped for it. You trusted the people you were depending on to come through for you. You even defended that belief to others. And then… it didn’t happen.

What do you do when excitement turns into disappointment?

What do you do when hope meets reality and reality hurts?

You don’t give up.

When one door closes, God opens a better and bigger door.

If you’re feeling disappointed because things didn’t work out the way you expected, let me tell you something important: it’s okay to feel disappointed. It’s okay to feel sad. Those feelings are human. But don’t stay there forever. Don’t allow sadness or disappointment to stop you from believing again, hoping again, or trying another way.

I know how hard it can be to hold on to excitement after a big letdown—but keep it anyway. Do the best you can with what you have right now. Put your trust in God. People may fail you, but God will not fail you.

Sometimes the people we trust and hope will come through aren’t the ones God assigned to help us. And sometimes what feels like a disappointment is actually God protecting us from something we can’t see yet. Could it be that there’s something bigger, better, and far greater ahead—something you would’ve missed if this hadn’t fallen apart?

It’s okay to feel sad. It’s okay to say, “This really sucks.” Just don’t let that feeling take over your heart or control your future.

Surrender it. Pray honestly. Say,

“God, I don’t understand why this didn’t work out. I truly thought it would. But have Your way. I trust that this is working out in my favor. Make a way. Help me heal from this hurt and disappointment.”

Where there seems to be no way, God always makes a way.

So get back up again. Trust again. Believe again. Bless the people who didn’t come through. Bless the situation. Release it. Because in the end, it will work out in your favor. It always does.

Every disappointment is a blessing in disguise—even when it doesn’t feel like it at first.

That’s all I have for you today. I wish and pray you all the best in your plans, your goals, and your desires. I pray that God opens doors for you that are better than anything you ever imagined.

And remember—don’t let anybody steal your joy. 💛

The Detour Episode: When Disappointment Turns Into a Triple Blessing

Sometimes life takes an unexpected turn.

You plan your steps. You prepare your schedule. You do everything right. And then—out of nowhere—you find yourself on a detour you didn’t ask for.

This post is my testimony and encouragement to you: every disappointment carries a hidden blessing, and when you don’t quit in the detour, God can do exceedingly more than you imagined.

When Everything Feels Like It’s Going Wrong at Once

A few weeks ago, several frustrating situations collided at the same time.

First, my truck failed an emissions test. That meant I couldn’t renew my registration. No renewal meant stress, delays, and the risk of tickets. Repairs were attempted, parts were replaced, and yet the check engine light stayed on. Nothing seemed to work.

At the same time, I had ordered a new phone—something I truly needed for work, filming, and daily operations. After delays, missed deliveries, and countless calls, I was notified that my phone had been delivered and signed for… even though no one in my home received it.

Yes. My phone was stolen.

Imagine your car not cooperating, your work tools not arriving, and your old phone barely functioning—all at once. It felt like too much.

Yet something surprising happened.

I was calm.

Choosing Faith Over Frustration

Instead of spiraling into anger, I kept declaring:

“Everything is working out in my favor.”

I didn’t deny the disappointment. I didn’t pretend it didn’t hurt. But I refused to let frustration control my spirit.

I prayed. I surrendered. I trusted God.

Even when I didn’t see how things would resolve, I chose peace over panic and reminded myself that God sees what I cannot see.

The Detour Was Doing More Than I Realized

Here’s what I didn’t understand at the time.

The miles I was driving back and forth—trying to fix my truck, checking phone stores, filing reports—were exactly the miles needed for my truck’s system to reset.

Without realizing it, the detour was fixing the very problem that started the stress.

Eventually, the check engine light turned off. The truck passed emissions. The registration was renewed.

But the blessing didn’t stop there.

From Disappointment to Triple Blessing

After weeks of frustration, I decided to change direction. I switched carriers.

And that’s when everything shifted.

Not only did I get the phone I originally wanted… I received three brand-new, premium phones:

Google Pixel 10 Pro

iPhone 17 Pro

Samsung S25 FE

No down payment. No stress. No compromise.

What began as disappointment ended in overflow.

God didn’t just replace what was lost—He multiplied it.

The Power of Your Words

Life will test you. Delays will come. Things will fall apart.

But what you declare in those moments matters.

When you speak faith instead of fear, peace instead of panic, and trust instead of frustration, you make room for God to work.

Don’t quit before the miracle. Don’t bleed on people who didn’t hurt you. Don’t allow disappointment to dictate your character.

Questions for Reflection

1. What is your current disappointment?

2. Could there be a seed of blessing hidden inside it?

Sometimes the very thing that feels like a setback is positioning you for something better than you planned.

A Final Word of Encouragement

If you’re feeling overwhelmed… If life feels heavy… If you’re tempted to give up…

It’s all working out in your favor.

You may not see how. You may not understand why. But God is in control.

Stay surrendered. Stay faithful. Stay hopeful.

The detour has purpose.

Ready for Guidance in Your Season?

If you feel called to work with me as your mentor and guide during this season of your life, I would be honored to support you.

Visit: https://www.maryamsjoyfullife.com

You don’t have to walk this journey alone.

Thank you for being here. Thank you for trusting the process. And remember—your breakthrough may be closer than you think.