What’s up, wonderful, amazing, sweet, and lovely people?!
How are you all doing today? I hope you're having an absolutely amazing day and, most importantly, I hope you're not allowing anybody to steal your joy!
Welcome back to Maryam’s Joyful Life Blog! 💕✨
It is such a beautiful day, and I’m excited to be sharing this post with you today. I wanted to take some time to catch you all up on what I’ve been doing, what I’ve been learning, and what has been on my heart lately.
Two Months in Texas! 🤠
We have officially been in Texas for about two months now, and it has been such a fun experience!
One of the biggest things that has happened since moving here is that I received my Texas real estate license! 🎉
It has been so exciting getting out there, showing houses, taking clients to different properties, meeting new people, and learning the real estate market here in Texas.
Starting over in a new place and starting a new business is exciting—but let me tell you something:
Starting a new business is NOT easy!
It takes work.
It takes commitment.
It takes consistency.
It takes excitement even when you aren't seeing the results you expected to see yet.
And sometimes, it can be frustrating.
You may have this vision in your mind of how quickly everything is supposed to happen. You may think, “I started this, so why isn't it taking off yet?”
I understand that feeling.
But one thing I am learning is this:
Just because something is moving slowly doesn't mean it isn't working.
Sometimes, you have to remind yourself:
"I'm just getting started."
"I'm learning."
"I'm building."
"I'm planting seeds."
"It's all working out in my favor."
What Do You Do When Things Feel Slow?
When things aren't moving as quickly as I want them to, I try to catch myself before I allow frustration to take over.
I remind myself:
You cannot be ungrateful.
Even when things are slow, there is still something to be thankful for.
I have learned that gratitude changes your perspective.
Instead of constantly focusing on what hasn't happened yet, I can look around and recognize everything that has happened.
I'm in Texas.
I have my Texas real estate license.
I'm meeting new people.
I'm showing properties.
I'm learning.
I'm growing.
I'm building something new.
There is still so much to be grateful for!
And I believe something good is going to come out of this season.
God has a plan.
Are You Trying to Get Ahead of God?
This is something I've been thinking about lately, and maybe it is something you need to think about too.
What is happening in your life right now that seems slow?
Is there something you've been working on for a long time?
Something you thought would have happened by now?
Something you're tempted to give up on because you're thinking, “I've been doing this for too long. Maybe it's not going to work.”
Before you quit, ask yourself:
Have I prayed about it?
Have I meditated on it?
Have I really sat down and evaluated the situation?
Could it be that you're in a hurry?
Could it be that you're trying to get ahead of God?
God has a plan, but sometimes we want everything to happen according to our timeline.
We want it now.
We want the results now.
We want the breakthrough now.
But what if there is something God wants you to learn in this season?
What if you're being prepared for something bigger?
What if the blessing is closer than you think?
What if you're literally just one step away from seeing something change?
What if you just need to stay a little longer?
Pray About It
One of the best things we can do when we don't understand what is happening is pray.
You don't have to have all the answers.
You don't have to pretend that you're not frustrated.
You don't have to pretend that you know exactly what to do.
You can simply say:
"Lord, I don't understand why this is moving so slowly. I want this to work out, and I don't know what to do next. I need Your help. Please guide me. Show me what I need to learn. Show me what I need to change. Help me recognize the opportunities in front of me. Give me wisdom and strength to keep going."
Sometimes we put so much pressure on ourselves to figure everything out.
But when we bring God into every area of our lives, the pressure comes off of us.
We can remind ourselves that there is Someone greater than us who created us.
Someone who knows our beginning, our middle, and our end.
Someone who knows the blueprint of our lives.
And God's grace is available to help us navigate every season.
Keep Going—But Keep Thinking
I want to encourage you today:
Don't quit just because it's taking longer than you expected.
Trust God.
Pray.
Take action.
Pay attention.
Evaluate what's working and what's not working.
Be willing to make adjustments.
And be watchful of what's happening around you.
You don't have to follow every trend just because everyone else is doing it.
Think for yourself.
Pray about your decisions.
Use wisdom.
Take action.
And if something doesn't work?
Learn from it.
Don't automatically call it a failure.
You can declare:
“Something good is going to come out of this.”
Maybe the experience taught you something.
Maybe it introduced you to someone.
Maybe it redirected you.
Maybe it showed you what you don't want.
Maybe it prepared you for the next opportunity.
Sometimes what looks like failure is actually information, preparation, and redirection.
Shift Your Focus
One thing I truly believe is that great things can happen when you shift your focus from what is missing to where you are going.
Instead of constantly asking:
"Why don't I have it yet?"
Ask:
"What can I do today to move closer to where I want to be?"
Instead of saying:
"Nothing is happening."
Ask:
"What is happening that I may not be noticing?"
Instead of saying:
"It's taking too long."
Tell yourself:
"I'm still building."
Your current situation is not necessarily your final destination.
Keep moving.
Keep learning.
Keep praying.
Keep believing.
Keep taking action.
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What's Next for Maryam's Joyful Life?
There is so much happening, and I'm excited to continue sharing the journey with you!
Make sure you're keeping up with all of my videos, because I'll continue sharing my life, my experiences, my lessons, my faith, business, real estate journey, travel, family, and everything in between.
And, of course, don't forget about the travel business! ✈️🌴
We have lots of travel deals and vacation opportunities available, so if you're ready to plan your next getaway, be sure to check out my website.
You can also visit Maryam's Joyful Life to explore products, courses, resources, and other things I've created to help you live a more joyful, purposeful, and fulfilling life.
Final Thoughts
Whatever you're going through right now, I want you to remember this:
Slow does not mean impossible.
Waiting does not mean forgotten.
A setback does not mean it's over.
And a closed door does not mean there isn't another door coming.
Pray about it.
Trust God.
Take action.
Learn.
Adjust.
Keep going.
And don't allow temporary circumstances to convince you that your story is over.
You never know what could be waiting for you just around the corner.
Your breakthrough could be closer than you think.
Thank you so much for spending some time with me today. I appreciate every single one of you who reads my blog, watches my videos, supports my businesses, and follows along with my journey.
Keep believing.
Keep building.
Keep moving forward.
And whatever you do...
DON'T LET ANYBODY STEAL YOUR JOY! 💕✨
With love,
Maryam
Maryam’s Joyful Life
