Pray About Everything — Even the Small Things

 

What’s up wonderful, amazing, sweet, and lovely people?

How are you all doing today?

It’s a beautiful day, and I’m genuinely excited to write this because I noticed something powerful today—something that many of us can easily overlook.

Sometimes situations feel manageable. We think, “As long as I reach out to the right people, it’ll eventually get handled.” And often, that’s where we stop. But today reminded me why we should never stop at human effort alone.

A Simple Situation… With a Big Lesson

This morning, I found myself locked out of my company’s website. Not intentionally—but because I recently upgraded my phone. My old phone, which had all my security access, was turned in, and suddenly I needed to reset everything.

That meant I had to submit a request to the tech department.

Now, from experience, I already knew how this usually goes. The last time I dealt with something like this, it took three days of follow-ups and persistence before it was resolved. So this time, after submitting my case, I prepared myself mentally to wait… and wait… and keep checking.

Then I Did Something Different

During my morning devotion, I paused and prayed.

I simply said, “God, thank You because You are God. Please help me. Touch the right people so this can be handled in a timely manner.”

And let me tell you—within hours, the issue was resolved.

The last time it took days.

This time, after prayer, it took hours.

That Made Me Think…

What if I hadn’t prayed?

I already knew how long it could take. But prayer changed the timing. God moved the right people to act on my behalf.

And that’s the encouragement I want to share with you today.

A Gentle Question for You

Is there something in your life right now where:

You’ve made the calls

You’ve sent the emails

You’ve reached out to the right people

And now… you’re just waiting?

Have you also prayed and asked God to move on your behalf—to align the timing, touch hearts, and cause things to work out smoothly?

Pray About Everything

Today’s message is simple:

Pray about everything.

Not just the big, overwhelming situations—but also the ones you think you can handle on your own. God is always working behind the scenes, and when we invite Him in, things shift.

I want to stay in the habit of asking God for help in every situation—big or small—because life flows better when we let Him lead.

As You Go About Your Day…

Give thanks.

Surrender your plans.

Offer both the things you understand and the things you don’t to God.

Ask Him to take control and cause everything to work out beautifully, according to His divine plan for you.

Have a blessed day 🤍

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The Giant Is Smaller Than You Think

 

Hello, wonderful, amazing, sweet, and lovely people 💛

It’s a brand-new year, and I am genuinely excited. It’s still January, and we’re still moving forward. What a blessing. How are you feeling today? How is life treating you? I truly hope you’re doing well and feeling encouraged.

I want to share something that’s been on my heart because I know I’m not the only one who experiences this.

Isn’t it interesting how our minds work when we have something to do? The moment we assign difficulty to a task—whether it’s following up with a client, cleaning the house, doing laundry, or even washing dishes—we suddenly feel heavy. Instead of feeling motivated or excited to get it done, we feel overwhelmed. Our minds start telling us stories: It’s going to take too long. I don’t have time. I’ll do it later.

And even when we technically do have the time, the heaviness still creeps in.

The truth is, the mind can play tricks on us.

Recently, I had to follow up with some clients who had returned from vacation. A few things happened during their trip that needed to be addressed. In my mind, I kept thinking about how long the conversation would take and how much energy it would require. I told myself, This is going to take a while. Let me do other things first.

But here’s what really happened:

I wasn’t actually using that time productively. The more I postponed it, the more uneasy and stressed I felt. The task wasn’t even being done, yet it was draining me emotionally.

That’s when I realized something powerful—my mind was creating resistance where there didn’t need to be any.

So I made a decision.

I decided to face it and handle it.

And guess what? The moment I took action, it felt easy. The conversation flowed. The situation was handled. And now, it’s resolved.

Here’s the lesson I want to leave you with today:

When you keep postponing the things you know you should be doing, the weight grows heavier. You feel disappointed, stressed, and overwhelmed. But the moment you take even a small step toward it, the fear begins to dissolve.

The giant you’re afraid of facing is often just a tiny ant—waiting to be crushed by simple action.

So today, I encourage you:

Face the thing you’ve been avoiding. Start small. Take one step. You’ll be amazed at how quickly the heaviness lifts.

Thank you so much for stopping by today. Be sure to explore more of my content here on the blog. And if you’re looking for a coach to support you on your journey, visit me at

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Have an amazing, joyful day 💛

How Releasing Small Frustrations Protects Your Joy

 

Good morning, wonderful, amazing, sweet, and lovely people. It’s a beautiful day today, and I’m so excited to be here on MaryamsJoyfulLife.

Today, I want to talk about letting go.

Before I get into the lesson, let me share a simple but powerful story.

A Small Moment, A Big Lesson

On New Year’s Day, my sweet man, our kids, and I went grocery shopping. We picked up a few items and headed home, thinking we had everything. Once we started putting the groceries away, my sweet man noticed one item was missing.

Immediately, thoughts ran through my mind:

Did we forget it at the store? Should we go back? The store is far…

But instead of spiraling, I paused. I knew we weren’t going back, and I decided not to let it bother me. Sometimes things happen. Sometimes things go missing. And sometimes the best thing you can do is declare, “It’s all working out in our favor.”

So I let it go.

The next day, when I went into the cabinet to get some plantains I had stored there, I noticed something unexpected. Inside the same bag of plantains—because we had bought them at the same shop—was the item we thought we had lost.

There it was, waiting to be used.

I joyfully took it out and, at my sweet man’s suggestion, placed it in the fridge. Later, he cooked it for himself and the kids, and it was absolutely delicious.

What This Taught Me About Energy

In the past, this situation would have frustrated me. I would have asked, “Why does this always happen?” That one thought would have led to a chain reaction—remembering other times things went wrong, draining my energy, and ruining my mood for the day.

But this time was different.

I realized something powerful: energy is everything.

When you focus on what’s missing, what didn’t go as planned, or what you should have done differently, it steals your joy. It pulls you out of the present moment—which is often neutral—and it affects your peace, your relationships, and your entire day.

Negative energy doesn’t stay contained. It spills over and contaminates everything.

Choosing Peace Over Perfection

So today, I want to encourage you to do something simple but life-changing:

When things don’t go your way, say,

“It’s all working out in my favor.”

Smile.

Breathe.

Move forward.

Do not allow small inconveniences, mistakes, or unexpected moments to ruin your day. The Word reminds us that all things work together for good for those who love the Lord—and I know you do.

Even when something doesn’t seem to work out, it’s often a seed being planted for something greater than you could imagine.

A Question for You

What is that thing today that has been stealing your joy?

Can you reframe it and say,

“You know what—this is working out in my favor.”

Focus on the good.

Start giving thanks.

And don’t allow anyone or anything to steal your joy.

You Don’t Have to Do Life Alone

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Have a blessed, joy-filled day 💛

Small Wins That Build Self-Trust

 

There are moments in life when things don’t work the way we planned. Plans fall apart. Progress feels slow. Results don’t show up when we expect them to. In those moments, it’s easy to feel discouraged, overwhelmed, and tempted to shut down. It can feel like stopping altogether would hurt less than continuing to try.

But that is the worst thing we can do.

When things aren’t working, that is not the time to quit on yourself. That is not the moment to stop believing, hoping, praying, or moving forward. That moment is an invitation to respond differently.

Giving up feels like relief in the short term, but it slowly erodes self-trust. Every time we quit on ourselves, we teach our nervous system that we cannot be relied on when things get hard. Over time, that creates fear, hesitation, and self-doubt.

Small wins do the opposite.

Small wins rebuild trust with yourself.

A small win doesn’t have to be dramatic. It can be as simple as choosing to get up when you want to stay down. It can be adjusting your approach instead of abandoning the goal. It can be going for a walk, praying through the frustration, affirming what you desire even when the evidence hasn’t caught up yet.

A few months ago, I experienced setbacks that were hard, discouraging, and deeply disappointing. There were days it felt heavy. There were moments when stopping would have been easier. But I didn’t quit.

I chose to keep going.

I changed my approach instead of giving up. I prayed even when I felt tired. I exercised when my emotions felt low. I went on long walks and affirmed my desires in the present tense, even when my circumstances hadn’t shifted yet. I kept believing while moving.

And because I didn’t quit, I came out of it.

That’s the power of small wins. Every time you choose to keep going—even imperfectly—you send yourself a message: I can trust myself. That trust compounds. It builds resilience. It builds emotional strength. It builds faith in your own ability to navigate life.

Acceptance does not mean surrendering your vision. You can accept where you are without giving up on where you’re going. Accept the situation, but don’t stop praying. Don’t stop planning. Don’t stop believing. Don’t stop moving.

You always have a choice.

You may not control every circumstance, but you do control how you respond. And how you respond shapes your future far more than the setback itself.

My advice is simple and honest:

Don’t let things not going as you desire cause you to quit trying.

Don’t let disappointment steal your hope.

Don’t let delays convince you that it’s over.

Keep choosing small actions that align with the life you want. Those actions build momentum. Momentum builds confidence. Confidence restores joy.

And most of all—don’t let anyone steal your joy. Protect it. Your joy is fuel. It is strength. It is evidence that you are still choosing yourself.

Keep going. Even slowly. Even imperfectly.

That choice alone is a powerful win.