It Had to Happen – Day 8 of December
Good morning, wonderful, amazing, sweet, and lovely people! I hope you’re having an amazing day and not letting anyone steal your joy. Welcome back to Maryam’s Joyful Life.
Today is December 8th, and I want to share an incredible insight I received yesterday from my amazing pastor and mentor, Real Talk Kim. These are things I’ve been reflecting on and believe will be inspiring for you too.
At church, Pastor Kim was teaching from our current series, Messy Miracles. During the sermon, she said four simple words that really resonated with me: “It had to happen.”
Think about that for a moment. Every struggle, setback, and unexpected moment in your life—no matter how difficult—happened for a reason. Even the things that seem messy, confusing, or painful are part of a bigger plan that is shaping your growth, your healing, and your future blessings.
Sometimes we get frustrated when things don’t go the way we want. We may wish for instant answers, perfect timing, or smooth roads. But the truth is, life’s detours and challenges are often exactly what we need to become stronger, wiser, and more prepared for the blessings waiting for us.
So today, I encourage you to take a deep breath and embrace your journey—messy as it may seem. Trust that even when things feel overwhelming or uncertain, it had to happen. Your past, your struggles, and even your mistakes are creating the path to your miracles.
Stay joyful, stay hopeful, and remember—you are exactly where you need to be.

