What’s up, wonderful, amazing, sweet, and lovely people?
How are you all doing today? I truly hope you’re having an amazing day and not allowing anyone—or anything—to steal your joy. Welcome to I’m Joy for Life. It’s a beautiful day, and I’m so grateful to share this moment with you.
Today, I want to talk about something that has been deeply resonating with me lately: what’s in your language.
One of my coaches often reminds me that change is linguistic. In other words, the words we speak matter more than we realize. When we change how we speak, we change what we attract into our lives—and I believe that with my whole heart.
Recently, I took time to honestly evaluate the words I’ve been using to talk about my goals, my life, and myself. What I discovered surprised me. I realized I hadn’t been as positive as I thought I was. Instead of speaking from vision, I had been speaking from circumstance. I was allowing current results—and sometimes past disappointments—to determine my language.
But here’s the truth: if we want to change our lives, we have to use our higher faculties. We must use our perception, our reason, and our intuition. We must begin to think, see, and speak as the person we desire to become—not as the person defined by present conditions.
When we constantly evaluate ourselves based on our current situation, we recreate the same results over and over again. But when we shift our language, we shift our reality.
I realized that no matter what is happening on the outside, I have the power to change the inside. And the inside always comes first. I can refuse to let external circumstances control my attitude, my expectations, or my words. Instead, I can choose to speak the language of where I’m going—as if I’m already there.
Every word we speak carries a vibration. Every sentence we form is creating something. If we’re always talking about what’s not working, thinking about what’s missing, and repeating old stories, that’s exactly what we continue to experience. Not because we’re bad or broken—but because language is creative.
So I’m choosing differently.
I’m choosing to speak from the goal, not the gap.
I’m choosing to see myself where I’m going, not where I’ve been.
I’m choosing to speak as the version of me who has already achieved what she desires.
And I want to encourage you to do the same.
Stop allowing past results and current circumstances to dictate what you speak and what you expect. If you’ve been in the habit of saying, “I can’t,” I want you to know this: you can. You can, you can, you can.
Your spirit is beautiful.
Your spiritual DNA is powerful and perfect.
There is no limit to where you can take yourself.
My coach often says, “There is no end to where you can take yourself,” and today, I choose to accept that idea fully. I choose to believe that I can create what I want. I refuse to allow past or present results to control my attitude, my language, or my future.
From this moment forward, I choose to speak positivity.
I choose to believe.
I choose to think and speak like I’ve already achieved my goals.
I am going higher.
Better things than I’ve ever imagined are coming my way.
I am successful.
I am abundant.
I am worthy.
Success is my birthright.
I refuse to allow the past to control my future.
From this present moment, I choose to create a future I’m proud of—a future filled with joy, excitement, fulfillment, and freedom. A future created on my terms, not dictated by past failures, other people’s expectations, or old limitations.
So today, I invite you to stand strong with me. Decide what you want. Speak the language of where you’re going. Act as though it’s already done—because you are capable.
Remember this: you are the prize.
The goal isn’t more important than you.
You are powerful because you have the ability to create what you desire.
And it all starts with how you think, how you feel, and—most importantly—how you speak.
Let’s get excited. Let’s be grateful that we have the power to change our lives starting today. And let’s refuse to allow situations, people, or the past to steal our joy.
Thank you so much for being here and reading this today. I appreciate you more than you know.
And if you’re looking for a coach who will walk with you as you create the life you truly want, I’m here for you.
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