The Giant Is Smaller Than You Think

 

Hello, wonderful, amazing, sweet, and lovely people 💛

It’s a brand-new year, and I am genuinely excited. It’s still January, and we’re still moving forward. What a blessing. How are you feeling today? How is life treating you? I truly hope you’re doing well and feeling encouraged.

I want to share something that’s been on my heart because I know I’m not the only one who experiences this.

Isn’t it interesting how our minds work when we have something to do? The moment we assign difficulty to a task—whether it’s following up with a client, cleaning the house, doing laundry, or even washing dishes—we suddenly feel heavy. Instead of feeling motivated or excited to get it done, we feel overwhelmed. Our minds start telling us stories: It’s going to take too long. I don’t have time. I’ll do it later.

And even when we technically do have the time, the heaviness still creeps in.

The truth is, the mind can play tricks on us.

Recently, I had to follow up with some clients who had returned from vacation. A few things happened during their trip that needed to be addressed. In my mind, I kept thinking about how long the conversation would take and how much energy it would require. I told myself, This is going to take a while. Let me do other things first.

But here’s what really happened:

I wasn’t actually using that time productively. The more I postponed it, the more uneasy and stressed I felt. The task wasn’t even being done, yet it was draining me emotionally.

That’s when I realized something powerful—my mind was creating resistance where there didn’t need to be any.

So I made a decision.

I decided to face it and handle it.

And guess what? The moment I took action, it felt easy. The conversation flowed. The situation was handled. And now, it’s resolved.

Here’s the lesson I want to leave you with today:

When you keep postponing the things you know you should be doing, the weight grows heavier. You feel disappointed, stressed, and overwhelmed. But the moment you take even a small step toward it, the fear begins to dissolve.

The giant you’re afraid of facing is often just a tiny ant—waiting to be crushed by simple action.

So today, I encourage you:

Face the thing you’ve been avoiding. Start small. Take one step. You’ll be amazed at how quickly the heaviness lifts.

Thank you so much for stopping by today. Be sure to explore more of my content here on the blog. And if you’re looking for a coach to support you on your journey, visit me at

👉 www.mariamjoyfullife.com

Have an amazing, joyful day 💛

Why Readiness Is a Lie

 

Hello friends, and thank you for being here today. I want to talk about something that quietly holds so many people back without them even realizing it: the idea of readiness.

Here’s the truth—there will never be a perfect time to start moving toward your goal. The belief that you must wait until you feel ready, prepared, or perfectly aligned is one of the biggest lies we’ve accepted for far too long. Waiting feels responsible, but more often than not, it’s just procrastination dressed up as planning.

I’ve discovered through lived experience that the only real time to start is today. Not tomorrow. Not when conditions improve. Not when confidence magically appears. Now.

If there’s a dream pulling at your heart, begin right where you are. Quit planning the plan and get going. There is always something you can do right now that will move you forward.

Is it getting up 30 minutes earlier to meditate and then exercise? Do it.

Is it studying for 10 minutes a day? Do it.

Is it saying thank you when someone does something kind for you? Do it.

Is it making your bed when you wake up? Do it.

Don’t wait to think about it. Action creates clarity—not the other way around.

When you stay ready instead of waiting to get ready, you train your nervous system to respond with action. You break the habit of wasting time and reinforce the identity of someone who moves, even when it feels uncomfortable. That discomfort isn’t a sign to stop—it’s a sign you’re growing.

This is how I live my life. If something needs to be done and I truly want it, I don’t wait. I act, even when it feels inconvenient or uncomfortable. And every single time I take action, I feel better, stronger, and more aligned.

Momentum builds confidence. Action builds belief.

If you’re ready to elevate your approach, stop overthinking, and actually get things done—with support, structure, and accountability—I’m here to help.

Sign up today at www.maryamsjoyfullife.com and let’s move forward together.