Sometimes You Have to Let the Baby Cry to Keep Her Safe

 

What’s up, wonderful, amazing, sweet, and lovely people? 💖

How are you all doing today? I hope you’re having an amazing day and living in the fullness of your joy. Welcome back to Maryam’s Joyful Life!

It’s a beautiful day today, and I just had to write and post this blog—even though I’m multitasking, breastfeeding the baby and eating at the same time. It has been a busy morning (a wonderful one, actually), but something came to my heart that I know I need to share.

My Morning Lesson: Letting the Baby Cry

This morning, I was preparing breakfast for the baby—making cereal with fresh bananas and hot water. I had her in one hand while trying to stir things together, but she kept reaching for the hot water.

Now, as a mom, you know the struggle. If I put her down, she would cry. But if I kept holding her, she could hurt herself badly. At that moment, I had to make a choice: let her cry in her safe space or risk her burning her little hand.

So I gently put her down, and yes, she cried. She cried hard. But the truth is, she wasn’t being neglected. I was actually preparing something good for her—her food. Her tears in that moment were part of my protection over her.

And right there, in the middle of my busy kitchen, I had a light-bulb moment. The Holy Spirit whispered to my heart:

“Sometimes you’ve got to let the baby cry to keep her safe.”

Could God Be Doing the Same for Us?

That thought hit me deeply. Could it be that God does the same thing for us?

• Could it be that the thing we desire so strongly, the thing we’re praying for nonstop, isn’t happening because God is protecting us?
• Could it be that our tears are not signs of neglect, but of God’s love—shielding us from something far worse?
• Could it be that while we feel pain in the moment, God is actually preparing something better for us, just like I was preparing food for my baby?

Wow. Let that sink in.

A Heart of Gratitude

This reminded me of the importance of being thankful in all things. Even in the moments that make us cry, perhaps God is guarding our hearts from a deeper pain. Maybe, just maybe, our tears are evidence of His love and protection.

So today, I want to encourage you: thank God even in the “no’s” and the delays. What feels like a setback could actually be His way of keeping you safe and positioning you for something greater.

Final Encouragement

My sweet friends, I’m sending you love, joy, and a whole lot of sweetness from my heart to yours. 💕 Remember this truth today: don’t let anybody steal your joy.

And if you’ve ever felt called to share your own story—through a blog, a video, or a platform that can inspire others—let me help you. I created the Joyful Life Blueprint, a step-by-step coaching program that guides you in sharing your voice and creating impact.

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Until next time, stay strong, stay joyful, and keep trusting God’s perfect timing. 🌸

Mom & Daughter Wash Day Routine | Natural Hair Care for Kids

 

What’s up wonderful, amazing, sweet, and lovely people? 💕

Thank you for checking us out today. We are so glad you’re here at Maryam’s Joyful Life!

Today, I just wanted to share a beautiful little moment I had with my daughter Zoe (we call her Zozo 💖). A few days ago, instead of our usual wash day routine in the shower, we decided to try something different and wash her hair in the kitchen sink.

Now, let me tell you—Zozo’s natural hair is absolutely gorgeous: thick, curly, and full of life. But if you’re a natural hair mama (or a curly-haired queen yourself), you already know… wash day can be a battle zone. Detangling those curls often comes with lots of resistance, sighs, and sometimes tears.

But this time? Things were different.

Our Kitchen Sink Wash Day Experience

I pulled out a product I’ve been loving for a while now: Aussie Miracle Curls Shampoo and Conditioner. Y’all, when I say this product worked magic on Zozo’s hair, I mean it! Her curls came out soft, easy to comb through, and full of bounce and shine. For the first time, I actually saw Zoe smiling and enjoying the process instead of dreading it.

It was such a sweet bonding moment between us—and it reminded me that sometimes, the little changes (like moving to the kitchen sink and using the right product) can completely transform an experience.

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Wash Day Video – Mom & Daughter Natural Hair Care Routine

I actually filmed the whole wash day for Zoe on the kids’ channel so you can see the process for yourself. If you’re looking for a real mom-and-daughter natural hair care routine, check it out here:

🎥 Mom & Daughter Wash Day Routine | Natural Hair Care for Kids

It’s fun, real, and hopefully gives other moms ideas on how to make wash day a joyful bonding experience instead of a dreaded chore.

Turning Stories Into Impact

Sharing these little moments with my family is part of what makes life so beautiful. And this is exactly why I created the Joyful Life Blueprint Course—to help you turn your own everyday stories into a platform that inspires and impacts millions of lives.

If you’ve ever wanted to share your journey through blogging, YouTube, or social media, my course will guide you step by step.

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Final Thoughts

Wash day doesn’t have to be stressful—it can be a time of love, laughter, and connection. For us, switching things up made all the difference, and finding the right product (thank you, Aussie!) turned it into a joyful experience.

Thank you so much for reading, sweet and lovely people! 💕 Don’t forget to check out the video, try the product if you’re interested, and most importantly—make space to enjoy the little moments with your loved ones.

Until next time, stay joyful and blessed. 🌸

Be Strong and Courageous: God Is With You Wherever You Go

 

What’s up, wonderful, amazing, sweet, and lovely people? 🌸 It’s a beautiful day today, and I’m so glad you stopped by Maryam’s Joyful Life. Thank you for checking out today’s post—it’s going to bless you!

Recently, something unusual happened to me, and I just knew I had to share it here. I was reading my Bible app, and I came across a scripture that I had highlighted a long time ago. It felt like God was speaking directly to me, reminding me of something I had forgotten. The verse was from the book of Joshua 1:9 (though at first, I thought it was in Deuteronomy):

“Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”

When I read this verse, it was like a wake-up call. Lately, I had been focusing on the wrong things—feeling discouraged, feeling like God wasn’t moving fast enough, and honestly, like I was standing in the way of my own blessing. But this scripture reminded me that God already commanded me to be strong and courageous. It wasn’t just advice—it was a command filled with love and power.

Why This Scripture Spoke to Me

I realized in that moment that I wasn’t letting God fully step in. I was holding on to discouragement instead of faith. And maybe you’ve been there too. Maybe right now, you’re in a season where things feel slow, heavy, or frustrating. Maybe you’re tempted to give up because it feels like nothing is changing.

But friend, let me remind you of this truth: God is with you wherever you go. Whatever your situation looks like right now, it’s about to turn around. This verse isn’t just for me—it’s for you too.

How to Apply This Word Today

Here’s what I want you to do:

• Speak this scripture over yourself by name. For example, say: “Maryam, do not be afraid. Do not be discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”
• Shift your focus from what is going wrong to what God has already promised.
• Begin to thank Him right now for the breakthrough that’s on the way.

God gave us this word because He’s about to do something extraordinary in our lives—but He also requires our agreement. We give that agreement by trusting Him, holding on to His promises, and being courageous even when it’s hard.

Final Encouragement

As you go through your day, carry this word in your heart: Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid. Do not be discouraged. The Lord your God is with you wherever you go.

Thank you so much for stopping by today—I appreciate you more than you know. 💕

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Remember, don’t let anybody steal your joy. Stay strong, stay courageous, and know that God is always with you. 🌸